Never stop learning, because life never stops teaching. - Unknown
Kink checklists and their benefits
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Kink checklists have grown in popularity with the growth of the internet. So the question has arisen as to how we can use them to enhance and benefit our kink journeys. To answer this question, we must first answer “what is a kink checklist,” who might benefit, and what are some ways we can utilize them. In this discussion , we hope to help answer these questions and more.
So what if it’s a phase? TNG & M/s
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Let’s talk about the struggles of being considered TNG ( the next generation) while maintaining a healthy M/s dynamic. We will discuss the stereotypes surrounding being part of the TNG crowd. How the introductory to kink has changed over the generations. What things might be able to be done to help bridge the gap between generations and the unique challenges of competing for a title while being a part of the next generation.
Documents, Records, House Manuals Oh My!!!
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So what is a house manual? Ok but why would I want one? How can they be used to benefit me? Ok now, What do I put in mine? Who are these helpful for? This discussion style class strives to help you find the answer any questions you might have about house manuals. While discussing how to plan, prepare, and create a manual for your home or life, and practices for keeping up with and maintaining it. During the discussion we will also go over some of the more unique documents we chose to keep in ours.
Neurospicy kink
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What does Neurospicy/ Neurodivergent mean, and how does it relate to kink and alternative lifestyles? As neurodivergence becomes better understood over time, more people are learning about their partners, and/or even their own "neuro-spiciness” and learning to navigate their kinky interactions. We aim to educate and discuss the correlations between different neurodivergent individuals and kink lifestyles. As well as how kinky play might help them manage their needs and symptoms. This discussion is designed to be beneficial for everyone regardless of whether or not you are neurospicy.
What makes a pet player?
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Let’s dive past the commonly discussed pet behaviors, to take a look at some of the psychological constituents that contribute to the desire and enjoyment of pet players. Together through discussion and shared experiences we will begin to explore the finer more overlooked types of play and items that can be added to help pets and their handlers get the most out of these deeply bonding experiences.
Ageplay vs Ageregression vs Agedreaming
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With the craziness that is the internet new terms and classifications are being created on on a regular basis. Recently these 3 terms have been stirring around kicking up dust and uncertainty. Not only about what each of these terms mean but also about how we might want to interact with each of these terms. So let’s take some time to dissect each of these terms what they mean, how they might look, why each one is valid and important. As well as how we might go about interacting with these terms.
Scene creation: The next chapter
Let’s turn the page on the never ending novel of scene creation which is only limited by our imagination and creativity. In this think tank style discussion, we will talk about ideas for scenes that we have read, seen, or thought up ourselves, encouraging group input and participation in sharing their own ideas as well. What fascinating new ideas will you be able leave with, and maybe even trby yourself?
Owning a little
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A Master/slave dynamic and a Caregiver/little relationship. When we first joined the community we were told we would have to pick one and leave the other behind. Join us as we discuss how we pulled ourselves out of the box that we felt we had to fit in. To instead learn to blend these two dynamics together into a beautiful dynamic of 10yrs. This conversation is geared to help you explore whether or not you have created your own box. While providing tools to help you expand and explore.
Creation of Little moments
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Has your little always wanted to be a pirate, astronaut , cartoon character, or something else entirely? What can we do to help create these special moments. That are not only extremely important and special to our little space but also to caregivers. This class is geared to take a look at how we can use theming in our events, dates,and scenes to help create these moments. While exploring and sharing some of our favorite themes and how we have used them to create some amazing memories and experiences.
Ethical Bratting
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Playing within the gray
Bratting has always had its place in the kink and BDSM community. Somewhere in between obedience and defiance. Stay awhile and discuss where that place is and how it can work for your dynamic. We will talk about how to better identify boundaries to avoid potential land mines, signaling when and where brattiness is acceptable, and negotiating consequences to keep the game fun. Please come with questions because I will come with examples. Hope to see you in class.
So you think you can dine. High protocol dining
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“Eating is so intimate. It's very sensual. When you invite someone to sit at your table and you want to cook for them, you're inviting a person into your life.” - Maya Angelou.
The beauty and elegance of refined service lends itself beautifully to the enchantment of these encounters. High protocol dinners serve to do just this, imbuing the encounter with structure and sophistication. Together we will explore what high protocol dining is, some ways high protocol service can be done, and how both sides of the slash can lend themselves to the enhancement of the experience while endeavoring to bring new life back to this dying art.
P3 - Protocols, Postions, Presentations
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In this class we discuss what is the difference between protocols and rituals. How to implement effective and lasting protocol practices. As well as how to create protocols that serve you. In the second half of the class we encourage participation as we demonstrate and run through some common positions, transitions and presentations. During which we will discuss how these positions can be utilized in your daily life both with and without a partner. As well as how to adapt positions for all body types and abilities.
Kinky 3D Printing
Ever wanted to dip your hands into 3D printing? Already doing some fabrication as a hobby? What is the difference between filament and resin and how will it affect your design? Is this stuff food safe? This class will take you through making your own kinky gear from start to finish. We will cover all aspects of this fun craft, programs needed to create designs, websites to get finished creations, and how to turn those files into a finished product you can hold in your hand, or a mold for poring silicone.
Unconventional leather houses
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A leather house for s types run by a slave. Who is ‘the head of house. What is this madness. Let’s talk about it. What leather houses are. What made us shy away from traditional houses. Why we chose to go with unconventional format. How we made it work for us. What is our mission and goals. We will discuss it all and much more as we deep dive in to leather houses and all the unique challenges that come with making a new mold.
Each one teach one- presenters intensive
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How do you put together a class? Write a description? How do I apply to teach? Together we will tackle these questions and more. As we demystify the hectic world of presenting. Through out we will share the tools that we use as we sit down to put together a class. We will help each participant brainstorm and put together class ideas and descriptions. Each participant will be given a chance to give a short class presentation and receive feedback
So you want to be a Handler?
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When I was first asked to be a handler for a leather contest I had no idea what that would mean. I was told that all I had to do was make sure they were on time, fed and hydrated. It was so much more. A talk on the experience from a full time contestant handler. Advocating for myself and for my contestants. From contest prep to title holder events.
Asking for the tools to be of Service
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A discussion about the tools you find you may need to be of service to and for your partner. Sometime, you may find that you are unprepared for the needs and wants of your partner. From mixology classes to knowing how to service at functions. Maybe as simple as a pocket watch so you don’t have to have your phone during service. Let’s discuss the tools you need to be successful.
Littles and Their Spaces
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How do we create safe spaces for the littles in our communities, leather houses, and relationships? Creating safe mental and physical spaces for littles while destigmatizing what that looks like: How to create safe spaces, What they look like, Why it’s important, and Who can build these spaces? This class endeavors to help answer all of these questions and many more, While exploring littles and their spaces.
Is our phone just another peice of gear?
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Is your phone in your toy bag? Should it be or should it be left far away from what we do? let’s take a deeper look at the little computers in our pockets by not only looking at how they effect how we meet people but also how they effect how we shape our relationships. We will also take a look above and beyond controlling toys, at how we can use our electronic devices to build on our play and enhance our dynamics. While dissecting apps and tools on the market geared directly at placing our phones in our toy bags.
Turning up the heat
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let’s explore how we can take the already sensual experience of cigar service and enhance it with the equally erotic experience of cocktail/ Mocktail service. Thorough engaging and tantalizing of all of our senses. By utilizing the art of pairings, sound, and environment. During the class we will demonstrate how these services artfully dance together to create a mesmerizing experience. During which we will look at how to build a travel kit that includes the tools to seamlessly blend the two. As well as how to build different cocktails and Mocktails. Cumulating in a deeper understanding of this sensual dance.
Little space journal
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Let’s have some fun. In this class we will put together and decorate a little space journal/ activity book. While we laugh, giggle and, discuss how and why journaling can be a beneficial tool in little space. How we can use our journals to explore our little space. As well as how we can use a little space journal as a keepsake for events. Each attendee will leave with a personalized journal. Please bring a 1in binder.
I love us book
What happens when your world turns upside down, be it from a major move across country, natural disasters, to even unexpected deaths? This class tackles how to prepare for upheaval in your life by consolidating important documents, information, and instructions for your partners, family, and friends in a way that ensures the most important things are saved and passed on. While taking a deep in depth look at all of the unique and important things that we as a leather and kink community also need to consider in these the case of these events.
Pet Archetypes
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There are so many ways your pet head space affects how you play. Putting a name to it can help better understand how. Does your puppy like to do tricks or are they more of a go fetch kind of pupper? Do you want your pony to be a show pony or a breeder? Let’s discuss on the different pet archetypes and what they may entail.